致妙清：七年婚姻的感悟与展望

时光荏苒，今天是我结婚七年的纪念日。回首 2017 年 9 月 3 日那个美好的日子，仿佛就在昨天，而如今，已携手走过了七个春秋。

这七年的婚姻生活，有苦有乐，犹如一首跌宕起伏的乐章。我们一起经历了生活的风风雨雨，共同品尝了其中的酸甜苦辣。尤其是从去年到现在，先是老丈人离世，这突如其来的悲痛让我们的心灵承受了巨大的冲击。老丈人走后，爱人长期照顾丈母娘，与她居住在一起，只有周末才能回来与我相聚，一起做饭，享受短暂的温馨时光。

而我又做了心脏瓣膜置换术，那段艰难的时光，是爱与陪伴让我挺了过来。“十年生死两茫茫，不思量，自难忘。”老丈人的离去，让我深刻地体会到了生命的无常。然而，也正是在这悲痛之中，我更加珍惜与家人在一起的每一刻。而我自己的手术，又让我感受到了生命的脆弱与坚强。在病榻上，爱人的眼神中充满了担忧和关爱，那是我坚持下去的动力。

在这七年里，我们有过争吵，有过泪水，但更多的是欢笑和温暖。“在天愿作比翼鸟，在地愿为连理枝。”我们曾一起憧憬未来，为了共同的目标而努力奋斗。那些一起度过的平凡日子，如今回忆起来，都充满了温馨和甜蜜。

“色不异空，空不异色，色即是空，空即是色。”《心经》中的这句话让我明白，生活中的苦乐得失，都不过是过眼云烟。我们不应过分执着于眼前的困境，而应保持一颗平和的心，去面对生活的种种变化。正如我们在婚姻中遇到的困难，虽然当时觉得痛苦不堪，但当我们走过那段路，再回首，会发现那些都是让我们成长和更加珍惜彼此的经历。

“一切有为法，如梦幻泡影，如露亦如电，应作如是观。”《金刚经》的智慧也让我懂得，生活中的一切都是无常的，我们要学会放下执念，珍惜当下。虽然爱人与丈母娘居住在一起，我内心还是会有痛苦，但我也明白这是她的责任和担当。

在未来的日子里，我希望我们能够继续相互扶持，共同面对生活的挑战。无论遇到什么困难，我们都能紧紧相依，不离不弃。

我期待着我们能有更多的时间一起旅行，去看祖国的大好河山，感受不同的风土人情；我希望我们能一起培养更多的兴趣爱好，让生活充满乐趣。

未来的路还很长，也许还会有风雨，但我坚信，只要我们心手相牵，就没有什么能够阻挡我们前行的步伐。“愿得一心人，白首不相离。”在这七年的节点上，我感恩爱人的陪伴与付出，也期待着我们未来更多的七年，充满爱与希望，幸福永远。

让我们携手共进，迎接未来的每一个日出日落，让我们的爱情在岁月的洗礼中愈发坚固，熠熠生辉。

Time flies. Today marks the seventh anniversary of my marriage. Looking back at the wonderful day on September 3, 2017, it feels like it was just yesterday, and now we have walked hand in hand through seven years.

The seven years of marital life have been a mixture of joys and sorrows, like a fluctuating movement of music. We have experienced the ups and downs of life together and tasted the bittersweetness of it. Especially from last year until now, first, my father-in-law passed away, and this sudden grief dealt a huge blow to our hearts. After his passing, my partner has been taking care of my mother-in-law for a long time and living with her. Only on weekends can my partner come back to be with me, cook together, and enjoy the brief but warm moments.

I also underwent heart valve replacement surgery. During that difficult time, it was love and companionship that helped me pull through. "For ten years the living and the dead are boundless and indistinct. Even if not thinking, not forgetting." The death of my father-in-law made me profoundly realize the impermanence of life. However, it was precisely in this grief that I cherished every moment with my family even more. My own surgery made me feel the fragility and strength of life. On the sickbed, the look in my partner's eyes, full of worry and care, was my motivation to persevere.

During these seven years, we have had quarrels and tears, but there have been more laughter and warmth. "In heaven let us be two birds flying ever together, and on earth two trees with branches interlocked forever." We once envisioned the future together and strived for common goals. Those ordinary days spent together, when recalled now, are all filled with warmth and sweetness.

"Form does not differ from emptiness; emptiness does not differ from form. That which is form is emptiness; that which is emptiness form." This sentence from the "Heart Sutra" makes me understand that the joys and sorrows in life are but passing clouds. We should not be overly obsessed with the current predicaments but should maintain a peaceful heart to face the various changes in life. Just like the difficulties we encountered in our marriage, although it felt extremely painful at that time, when we look back after going through that period, we will find that those were all experiences that made us grow and cherish each other more.

"All conditioned phenomena are like a dream, an illusion, a bubble, and a shadow. They are like dew and lightning, and should be regarded thus." The wisdom of the "Diamond Sutra" also makes me understand that everything in life is impermanent. We must learn to let go of our attachments and cherish the present. Although my partner lives with my mother-in-law, and I still feel pain in my heart, I also understand that it is her responsibility and obligation.

In the days to come, I hope we can continue to support each other and jointly face the challenges of life. No matter what difficulties we encounter, we can stay closely together and never part.

I look forward to having more time to travel together, to see the great mountains and rivers of our motherland, and to experience different local customs and cultures. I hope we can cultivate more hobbies together to make life full of fun.

The road ahead is still long, and there may still be storms, but I firmly believe that as long as our hearts are joined, nothing can stop us from moving forward. "I wish to have the one hearted person until old age, never parting." At this juncture of seven years, I am grateful for my partner's companionship and dedication, and I also look forward to many more seven years in the future, filled with love and hope, and eternal happiness.

Let's move forward hand in hand, greeting every sunrise and sunset in the future, and let our love become stronger and shine brighter through the tests of time.